I am setting some more goals for myself.  I have been sober for 7 months now, have been off Facebook for over two months and have recently left all my social media platforms.  I have lost 10 pounds since the breakup and I plan to continue on that path.  I will be focused on writing all my food down and exercising in some way daily.  I am leaving my gym I have been a member of for a couple of years.  My x got a gym membership there for his birthday from me right before our break up.  So going there is not a good option for me anymore.  I am going to join a gym a few miles down the road which has a pool.  I am more likely to go if there are water aerobics classes involved in a membership.  In addition I am going to be celibate for at least a year.  That may last even longer depending on how I feel once that year is over.  I do not trust myself to pick someone who is not going to damage me.  Sex is not a priority for me anymore.  So I have some goals and I am looking forward to a good 2018.